July 25, 2012
One At A Time People…One At A Time

I just realized that I’ve been out of the dating loop for too long. I’m trying to remember back to when I was in, but its all a blur. I am aware that as young single adults we have a tendency to “play the field”. We meet people, go out on dates and eventually get to know those that may seem worthy of more than a movie. Unless you’re a Jonas Brother, this prolonged interaction may eventually escalate to some hugging, kissing and/or kinky sex. I do understand that most people “date” more than one person at a time. Why limit yourself right? Dating is only dating…its not a committed relationship.

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July 24, 2012
Let Me Learn You Something

The joke that is my life has played yet another trick on me this year.  I won’t go into details about the trick because, frankly, it’ll just make me mad all over again and someone will probably get fucked up over it.  What I will say is that I’ve learned a few lessons this year.  Okay, perhaps they’re not lessons.  They’re more like observations.  Nevertheless they’ve only made my life more complicated. I’d like to share these obserlessons with you.  Please take heed and learn from my mistakes.  I know I’m talking to a brick wall, but at least there will be something new on this blog.  I think we can all agree that this well is dry.

Anyhow…here are some life-lessons from a loser.

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July 24, 2012
If You Ain’t On Sit Down

The other day my life partner and I…okay. I’m lying.  I don’t have a life partner.  I’m not even gay, but I couldn’t figure out a way to start this post.  What better way than to make myself seem like a bitter black lesbian?  That’s what men will call me after they finish reading this anyway so why not?

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July 24, 2012
Blacks Only

I just read Ann Coulter’s “Our blacks are so much better than their blacks” and “Our blacks are so much more impressive” comments and was actually disgusted.  Not because she’s an idiot, but because she, and many others, honestly don’t know that she’s an idiot.  They actually believe her foolish ideas and adopt them.  She’s an idiot with power.  Not many things are more dangerous than that.

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July 24, 2012
The New & Improved Model

A lot has changed since the 1900’s.  There was once a time when men and women had specific roles and duties.  The man was the provider and the woman the nurturer/homemaker.  This worked pretty well until the age of feminism.  Now I know that feminism brought a lot of hassle, but in the long-run it worked out well for everyone.  Oddly, feminism benefited men more than anyone.  Think about it.  Not only does she still have to birth, nurture and support those babies…but the bitch has to bring in money too!  Cha-Ching!!!  We got what we asked for right?  

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July 11, 2012
frankocean:

frankocean:

April 5, 2012
"I know I’m getting more mature because I don’t say everything I think anymore."

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January 6, 2011
I’ve Officially Lost All Hope for Blacks…I’m Now Claiming Africa

A emailed me this…it ruined and made my day all at once. http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/the-real-stuff-white-people-like/. Thoughts?

July 13, 2010
CocktailOur

July 13, 2010
I’m fine…how are you?

I stumbled across Tumblr from another site today. I’ve heard of it before, but I never really checked into it. Is this like the newest popular blog site? I’m usually up on these things. Either I’m losing touch (short for getting old) or this site isn’t very popular. Either way, it was easy to set up and seems pretty cute. I’ll give it a try.

Btw…I’m Jay. I’m pretty eclectic. Most of you reading this probably know me already. If you’re reading this and you dont know me…stop with the stalking already will ya?  Just kidding.

Okay. I’m losing interest already. I’ll be back when I have something of value to share.

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