I just realized that I’ve been out of the dating loop for too long. I’m trying to remember back to when I was in, but its all a blur. I am aware that as young single adults we have a tendency to “play the field”. We meet people, go out on dates and eventually get to know those that may seem worthy of more than a movie. Unless you’re a Jonas Brother, this prolonged interaction may eventually escalate to some hugging, kissing and/or kinky sex. I do understand that most people “date” more than one person at a time. Why limit yourself right? Dating is only dating…its not a committed relationship.

Here’s the tricky part. What are the rules of engagement when you are having a sexual relationship with someone who you’re merely “dating” but not committed to? While I suppose I can see myself “dating” more than one person, I can’t get with the idea of being sexually involved with more than one man at a time. So what does that mean? Does it mean that, ironically, my idea if non-commitment is actually commitment?

I don’t understand. I’m lost and cold…
Where is Ja Rule?I need him to make sense of all this!